Hosting a Swingers Party

Posted by admin | Swingers | Wednesday 3 December 2008 5:29 pm

If you want to host a swinger party for the first time, rest assured it is not a very big deal, especially if you have been hosting other kinds of parties. All you have to do is to make your home as comfortable and pleasant as possible so that the people who come as guests have a good time. In a way, you are inviting them into a part of your life. Make sure they get to know the fun side of you.

First of all, you will need to send invitations to the people you want to invite to your swinger party. You donít have to go to the trouble of making written invitations in the beginning; after all you want even the people you donít know also included in the party. You can simply post the announcement on an adult website or a couple of periodicals. Then you can send formal invitations to the people who respond to your announcement and seek a final confirmation.

You will need to re-arrange the area in which you plan to have your party. Pay special attention to the washrooms. Make sure you place soap and extra towels so that your guests can make use of them. The idea is that everything that the guests might require for the time that they are in your house should be easily available and accessible to them so that they donít have to come to you to find them.

It is up to you whether you want to provide food to your guests or not. If you decide to provide food, re-arrange your kitchen area to lay out the food, plates and utensils in such a way that your guests can access them easily. Make sure that it flows smoothly. On the other hand, if you want your guests to bring something, let them know. Plan it so that there are no duplications and there is enough variety.

You would not want to use your whole house for the party. So, you can set some off-limits areas. It is a good idea to put some interesting signs to let your guests know that they cannot go beyond that point. Everyone respects your desire for privacy and they will take it in the right spirit.

Again, it is for you to decide whether you want your party to be an alcohol party or not. You may then provide the drinks yourself or ask your guests to bring a bottle. Make sure you have it printed on the invitation cards.

Your invitation must carry RVSP information. This is very important as it will help you organize the things according to the number of people you expect. You would want to avoid both possibilitiesóof running out of food or too many leftovers. While the first will be embarrassing, the second will entail too much wastage.

It is a good idea to provide a place for people to cool off just in case the party gets too hot, as it often does when there are many people around. You need to think of all possible ways to make your guests comfortable.

Swinger parties usually end up in some intimate moments between couples. Be prepared to encounter strip offs. Also, some others may get so hot as to want to use your room upstairs.